Remember when choosing cupcake flavors was simple: chocolate, vanilla or yellow cake? Today, not so much, especially in a world where cupcake boutiques carry at least a dozen options. Same goes for wedding showers. There are so many different routes to go these days—from themes, destinations and motifs—it’s hard to know where to start. Well, when all else fails, go with alcohol? Here’s a quick 101 on throwing a stock-the-bar wedding shower.